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Why Friends Are Bad Matchmakers - And What Professional Matchmakers Do Instead

We've all been there.

You're single, your best friend knows someone, and before long you're sitting across from a stranger at dinner, wondering how this happened. It was well-intentioned. It should h...

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What to Expect When You Meet With a Professional Matchmaker in NYC

Finding lasting love in New York City isn't a numbers game: it's a compatibility game. Here's what working with a professional matchmaker actually looks like.

If you've ever Googled "professional mat...

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Why Agape Match Is Built for Long-Term Compatibility, Not Swipe Culture

In a dating culture driven by dopamine hits, algorithms, and infinite scroll, it’s easy to mistake activity for progress. Swiping feels productive. Matching feels validating. Messaging feels like mome...

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Stop Dating Your Resume - Start Dating Your Nervous System

One of the most common things I hear from ambitious, capable people, especially women - is this:

"I just need someone who's as ambitious as I am."

I understand why that feels true. If you're a build...

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Dating After Divorce for Women: How to Heal, Find Love, and Start Again

You think divorce is the end. It's not. It's the part where you finally start living.

The Moment Everything Changes After Divorce

Nobody walks down the aisle thinking, "Someday, I'll be divorced." Not...

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How to Find the Right Matchmaker for You: 5 Smart Tips

Hiring a matchmaker is a deeply personal decision and one that deserves thoughtful consideration. Whether you’re newly single, burned out on dating apps, or simply ready for a more intentional approac...

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23 Relationship Strategies for Men to Improve Communication And Trust

Strong relationships don’t just happen – they’re built step-by-step on trust. Trust is nothing more than the complete absence of any doubts, confidence in your loved one, and peace of mind felt regard...

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Is Hiring a Matchmaker Worth It? 4 Signs Professional Matchmaking Is Right for You

Hiring a matchmaker is not for everyone and that’s intentional. Professional matchmaking is designed for people who are clear about what they want, value their time, and are ready to approach dating w...

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24 Best Date Ideas NYC: From Rooftop Views to Hidden Gems

Looking for unforgettable date ideas in NYC that are stylish, memorable, and far from ordinary? Whether you’re planning a first date, deepening a connection, or surprising your partner with something ...

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What Materialists Gets Wrong (and Right) About Matchmaking: A Real Matchmaker’s Behind-the-Scenes Take

When Hollywood puts matchmaking on screen, real matchmakers tend to brace themselves.

Eariler this summer, I was interviewed by People about the film Materialists, written and directed by Celine Song...

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7 Secrets to a Successful First Date (That Actually Lead to a Second)

Are you tired of great first dates that mysteriously go nowhere? Wondering what actually makes someone want to see you again?

You’re not alone. For many singles, the first date isn’t the problem—it’s...

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Dating Trends Shaping Modern Love

Agape Match founder and longtime professional matchmaker Maria Avgitidis was recently featured on ABC News with Linsey Davis expert insight into how dating is evolving and what singles need to underst...

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The Types of Daters You Think You’re Avoiding (But Probably Aren’t)

As a professional matchmaker and dating coach, I can honestly say I have heard everything. My clients tell me what they are looking for, all of their dating obstacles and patterns, and sometimes truly...

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Matchmaker Maria Joined Gayle King on CBS Mornings — Here Are the Key Dating Takeaways

When Matchmaker Maria joined Gayle King at CBS Mornings, the conversation wasn’t about celebrity dating or viral sound bites. It was about how people can date better, with less anxiety and more intent...

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How to Survive Ghosting and Dating Fatigue

An edited interview originally conducted by Chrissy Rutherford for FWD Joy.

Modern dating has a way of making even the most confident people question themselves. One promising connection can dissolve...

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