Let's Talk About You For A Second
You're not struggling to meet people, you're struggling to meet the right people.
You're driven, social, and fully capable of connecting with others, but whether you're burnt out from the apps or simply too busy to waste time on mismatched introductions, at some point, it stops feeling like romance…and starts feeling like another job.
You want a smarter, more supportive way to find someone truly compatible. That's where we come in.
Rather than overwhelming you with random options, we curate intentionally. We select matches who reflect your values, fit your lifestyle, and have real long-term potential with you.
“I was impressed to find that they had met with everyone personally before setting up the date. Everything was set up for me, which was a real added value. Great dating experience. And If I blew it, they told me...bluntly. Another added value...no more wondering, ‘was it something I said?’ I met my current (and most serious) girlfriend through Agape Matchmaking. It actually was a life changing experience.”
— Nick J.
Our Approach Prioritizes
Your Long-Term Success
Compatibility
We start by understanding who you are at your core — your values, lifestyle rhythms, temperament, and attraction patterns. This clarity allows us to identify the kind of partner you're truly compatible with, not just someone who looks good on paper.
Curation
Our team of seasoned matchmakers interviews, discusses and hand‑selects every introduction, ensuring each match receives detailed human vetting, not algorithmic guesswork.
Community
Maria’s authenticity and reputation as a super-connector attracts people who want to be matched — creating a richer, more intentional pool of singles aligned with the clients we serve.
Meet Our Founder
Maria Avgitidis
Maria Avgitidis is a bestselling author, podcaster, and fourth-generation matchmaker. As the founder and CEO of Agape Match, she blends a century-old family legacy with contemporary relationship psychology, matching high-achieving singles through a refined, community-driven process that has produced thousands of meaningful matches.
She's a super-connector who makes it a point to talk to singles every day, read voraciously, and stay informed. That authenticity creates instant trust, which is why tens of thousands of eligible singles voluntarily join her community.
She is also the co-founder of the Matchmakers Alliance, a pioneering trade association dedicated to promoting collaboration and knowledge sharing among 450 professional matchmakers and dating coaches.
Her mission remains simple: to bring intentionality, compatibility, and community back into modern dating, replacing endless swiping with thoughtful, human connection.
Learn More About Maria
Meet Your Personal Team of Experts
Every one of us lives and breathes dating and relationships. Different perspectives from decades of individual experience combined to give you unmatched guidance, support, and connections.
Chrisoula Mavrianos
Director of Client Relations & Matchmaker
Chrisoula is an integral part of the Agape Match team and a fourth-generation matchmaker with a natural talent for fostering meaningful connections. Working closely with the Founder, Chrisoula builds strong, positive relationships with clients and members alike, ensuring every interaction feels personal and seamless. She expertly coordinates first and second dates for clients, ensuring their experience is smooth, thoughtful, and aligned with their relationship goals. Chrisoula holds a Master's Degree in International Conflict Studies from King's College London.
Lucinda Luttrell
Client Services & Matchmaker
Lucinda is a Senior Matchmaker at Agape Match, where she works closely with clients to help them find and foster meaningful relationships. With a keen eye for compatibility and a passion for bringing people together, Lucinda meets with matches, curates connections, and supports clients as they navigate their matchmaking journey. A graduate of Fairleigh Dickinson University's Madison Campus, Lucinda holds a Bachelor of Arts in Fine Arts, bringing creativity and thoughtfulness to her approach as a matchmaker.
Louie Felix
COO & Matchmaker
Louie is the Chief Operating Officer of Agape Match and a distinguished matchmaking expert with over two decades of experience in the relationship industry. With a background in corporate startups, acquisitions, and executive leadership, Louie has overseen successful matchmaking services for more than 50,000 clients worldwide. Formerly the CEO of two of the nation's largest matchmaking companies, he now works with Agape Match to pair singles with the right matchmaking experience and provide tailored dating assessments.
Barbara van Zyl
Dating Strategist
Barbara is one of the most strategic minds in online dating today. With a background in law, finance, business, and innovation, she approaches matchmaking with a precision-driven, problem-solving mindset that sets her apart in the industry. Her expertise lies in crafting highly effective dating strategies, leveraging data, technology, and structured systems to optimize her clients' success in the modern dating landscape. At the intersection of logic and romance, Barbara is redefining what it means to be a matchmaker in the digital age.
Gaby Pappas
Director of Partnerships
Gaby Pappas leads Agape Match's partnership strategy, cultivating relationships with brands, media platforms, and fellow matchmaking services to help us attract the kind of intentional, relationship-minded singles who thrive in our community. With a strong background in media relations and brand collaborations, she brings a strategic eye to every opportunity. Gaby graduated from Wake Forest University, where she studied Business Enterprise Management and Global Trade.
"I cannot say enough! Working with Matchmaker Maria will change your life! She is not just a dating coach but a life coach! She is no-nonsense but she is very compassionate as well. With Maria, I really stepped up my game. I was not only proactive but I dated smarter which led to meeting my fiancé. I cannot thank Maria enough for everything!"
— Mary
Serving New York
and Beyond
Agape Match is proudly based in New York, but our reach extends far beyond. Through Maria's platform, national media presence, and long-standing relationships across the matchmaking industry, we regularly work with clients in major metropolitan areas across the country.
From Seattle to St. Louis, Atlanta to Boston, D.C. to Philadelphia, and all the way to San Francisco and Los Angeles— our network allows us to support exceptional singles wherever they are.
During your Discovery Call, we'll explore whether we're the right fit or, if not, connect you with a trusted matchmaker who is.
Get Started NowAGAPĒ (agápē)
From ancient greek ἈΓΆΠΗ
In the Greek language, agape is the soul's recognition of another soul: the ultimate love. At Agape Match, we help our clients move toward that, grounded in connection, community, and authentic support.
Why Choose Agape?
And other great questions
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Tired Of Wasting Time On The Wrong Matches?
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Ask a Matchmaker Book & Audiobook
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