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The Agape Edit
Modern dating advice for intentional relationships
As a professional matchmaker, I use these dating strategies every day to help singles navigate matchmaker dating and choose the right date spots in New York City.
Planning a date in New York City sh...
You're 32 years old. You've never been on a date. Never been kissed. Never been asked out.
And you're absolutely terrified to tell anyone.
If this resonates with you, you're not alone. Late bloomers...
Your online profile has the hottest photos you've ever taken.
You've filled out every prompt with clever answers. You get likes. But somehow, you're not meeting the right people.
Here's what's happe...
You're at a bar. You see someone cute across the room. Your heart starts pounding. You look at them... and immediately look away like a scared dog who just ate chocolate.
Sound familiar?
If you're G...
If you’re searching for unique ways to meet new people in NYC, you’re not alone.
In 2026, New Yorkers are quietly shifting away from swipe culture and rediscovering something far more powerful: face-...
Finding lasting love in New York City isn't a numbers game: it's a compatibility game. Here's what working with a professional matchmaker actually looks like.
If you've ever Googled "professional mat...
In a dating culture driven by dopamine hits, algorithms, and infinite scroll, it’s easy to mistake activity for progress. Swiping feels productive. Matching feels validating. Messaging feels like mome...
One of the most common things I hear from ambitious, capable people, especially women - is this:
"I just need someone who's as ambitious as I am."
I understand why that feels true. If you're a build...
You think divorce is the end. It's not. It's the part where you finally start living.
The Moment Everything Changes After Divorce
Nobody walks down the aisle thinking, "Someday, I'll be divorced." Not...
Everything old is new again - and when it comes to dating in 2026, that statement has never been more true.
Nearly half of Gen Z are currently single, and they are turning away from the phone and tur...
Valentine's Day is approaching, and while retailers stock up on roses and chocolates, many singles are battling something far darker: isolation, dread, and complete burnout. Science suggests the digit...
If you’re searching for dating strategies that actually work in 2026 - strategies grounded in real human connection, not algorithms - you’re in the right place.
Dating today is a paradox. We have mor...
Hiring a matchmaker is a deeply personal decision and one that deserves thoughtful consideration. Whether you’re newly single, burned out on dating apps, or simply ready for a more intentional approac...
Breaking up is never easy. The end of a relationship can leave you feeling disoriented, emotionally raw, and questioning your worth. Heartbreak doesn’t just end a partnership, it can disrupt your iden...
As professional matchmakers, we don’t just talk about first dates—we plan hundreds of them every year. That means we’re constantly scouting New York City for spots that strike the right balance: intim...
Dating can stir up a lot of emotions, especially during seasons of uncertainty or loss. Two of the most common experiences singles face are dating FOMO (the fear of missing out on love) and dating whi...
Strong relationships don’t just happen – they’re built step-by-step on trust. Trust is nothing more than the complete absence of any doubts, confidence in your loved one, and peace of mind felt regard...
Hiring a matchmaker is not for everyone and that’s intentional. Professional matchmaking is designed for people who are clear about what they want, value their time, and are ready to approach dating w...
If you live in New York City, New Jersey might not be the first place you think of for date night - but that’s exactly why it works. Just across the river (or a short drive away), the Garden State del...
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what actually creates intimacy—and why so many people feel disconnected even when they’re “doing everything right.” We talk endlessly about attraction, chemistry...