Affirmations for a Positive Dating Mindset

Affirmations are an incredibly powerful tool in life, and they’ve been scientifically proven, time and time again, to have a real, measurable impact on our ability to live a more content, happy life.

What you might not know is that affirmations are also incredibly effective in helping you in your dating life – allowing you to get more dates, find someone you’re compatible with and begin a loving, meaningful relationship.

Below, are some of my favorite dating affirmations from around the web. Make sure you use them several times a day, ideally speaking them out loud into existence to the universe!

Positive Dating Affirmations For Women

1. I am desirable and attractive
2. I am worthy of love and respect
3. If I open my heart to love, love will come as I want
4. I release the pain of my unpleasant experiences in love
5. My single status is a blessing, not a burden
6. The more I walk out from my comfort zone, the closer I get to my true love
7.  I deserve the best in the world, and I will not let others hurt me
8.  I am attracting the love I dream of and deserve
9.  What is going on in my mind is what I am attracting
10.  I will stop fretting over what’s going to happen
11.  My dates see me as a confident individual 
12.  I know that I have the power within me to create a life of fulfillment and joy
13.  Success, harmony, peace and confidence are mine
14.  I begin each day with a positive outlook. I intend for wonderful things to happen
15.  The right person for me appreciates my uniqueness and creativity

Positive Dating Affirmations For Men

1. I am sexy, attractive and desirable
2. I am a good person and the right person will see my value
3. I am deserving of love and affection
4. I am open to receive more abundance than I have ever imagined
5. I am proud of how far I’ve come and I will never stop
6. I am confident and worthy
7. I am attracting the love I dream of and deserve
8.  I am ready to leave my comfort zone to find my dream partner
9.  The partner I seek is also out there seeking me
10.  I am not scared to take risks in my life
11.  I will not settle for less than I deserve
12.  I will be an amazing provider for the partner in my life
13.  I am letting go of any fears of failure in finding the right person
14.  I owe it to myself to be honest
15.  I welcome change into my life

Affirmations are a fantastic way to help you boost your dating confidence and start attracting the right people into your life, and it’s something we use here at Agape Match with all of our clients.

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Author

Chrisoula Mavrianos

Chrisoula is an integral part of the Agape Match team and a fourth-generation matchmaker with a natural talent for fostering meaningful connections. Working closely with the Founder, Chrisoula builds strong, positive relationships with clients and members alike, ensuring every interaction feels personal and seamless.